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Online Dating Works!

To qualify myself as competent on this topic, let me first say that I met my wife online.
We shared about 2 weeks of back and forth instant messages and emails, before she decided to give me her telephone number. Once that happened, I quickly convinced her to go out on our first date.
We went to Tutu Tango, that wonderful Spanish influenced “tapas menu” restaurant. Unbeknownst to me, she had invited 2 of her girlfriend to trail her, you know as insurance, bail out really!
Eventually we moved in together after only 2 months of serious dating, got engaged and got hitched within 5 months. Today we are happily married, we recently moved into our second home and best of all, welcomed our first child! our relationship is now going on 5 years and is sweeter and stronger than ever.
Online dating works people! Love occurring serendipitously for everyone is impractical.
There are over 844 lifestyle and dating sites online however, market share is increasingly dominated by several large commercial services, including! Yahoo Personals, Match.com and eHarmony, or go ethnic such as Black Planet and Mi Gente.
In 2002, a Wired magazine article forecast that, "Twenty years from now, the idea that someone looking for love without looking for it online will be silly.”
Convinced, to give it a try, what do you have to lose? where else, especially in Orlando can you find a list of suitable men or women with similar intentions? Here are a few tips to help you hone your skills:

  • Do not be discouraged. consider that on average, women will receive at least 10-20 responses per day! It might take her a while to sift through the rubble to find you.
  • Stay true to yourself. If you are serious about meeting someone who will have to accept you for you, do not lie about you. If you weigh 230 lb today don’t post a picture of yourself 10 years ago when you were 160 lb! Ok?
  • Don’t be distracted. You know yourself! What personality type is the most compatible with you? Don’t choose someone because they are drop-dead gorgeous. Take the time to ask questions that will reveal who they are.
  • Know when to fold ‘em. Online dating services also work great for the players and playettes looking for a good time. Guys if this is your intention let it be known. Trust me, a player is always attracted to another player.
  • The Signs. If he/she takes days or weeks to respond to a very heart-felt message you sent, If the message seen like one you can just cut and past, If he/she constantly quip about being too busy (one can never be too busy for love). If you’re going back and forth for months and still haven’t met in person and you both live in Orlando.....move on to the next person. They are not interested!
Posted on Thursday, May 15, 2008 at 09:45AM by Registered Commenteradmin in | Comments1 Comment | References1 Reference

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    I have just foun this kind of online dating tips in a new site. Very interesting and helpfull.

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